In 2014 I came back from three weeks in Vietnam absolutely transformed.Pure culture shock had hit me like a freight train in Ho Chi Minh City the moment I stepped out of the airport. The food, the culture, the people. Strangers who had so little by comparison but seemed so much lighter than me. Happier. More alive. I found something new in myself on that trip. Something that felt real and true in a way not much had before. Then my PTO was over, and within my first hour back in the office my boss Craig looked me dead in the eye and said: “I hope you had fun. Because I’m never letting you take that much time off again.” It was like falling off the monkey bars in 4th grade. But this time, it was my soul gasping for air. I felt sad and angry and lost all at once. My first instinct was to shout: “That’s bullshit. You can’t take that away from me.” But that thought lasted about thirty seconds. Because I had a $5,000 balance on my credit card from that trip. Bills to pay. A job I couldn’t afford to lose. I didn’t have a choice. So I laughed it off. Got back to work. Told myself I’d figure out how to find the same joy with my I was trapped. And I knew it. And I did nothing about it. For a while... A lot has changed since that Monday back in the office. My random weekdays now look nothing like they did a decade ago. I wake up without an alarm. Make a pour over. Sit quietly with Mili’s head in my lap and actually think about the day ahead instead of dreading it. I spend the first few hours doing work I genuinely want to do. Writing. Reviewing client data. Building new spreadsheets. Or sometimes just making a second cup of coffee and reading for an hour because nothing is stopping me. Midday I take three hours off. CrossFit or yoga (yes, a walking contradiction, I know), lunch at home, a long walk with Jamie and Mili through whatever corner of Lisbon we haven’t explored yet. We let life happen. An afternoon walk to check out some street art can turn into 10,000 steps, a quirky tile that catches our eye, and a three-hour dinner at a Turkish restaurant with friends from Colorado. Some afternoons I meet with clients for the most rewarding work I’ve ever done in my life. Coaching someone through a money block they’ve carried for years. Watching a number click for the first time. Having deep, honest conversations that push us both to think harder and grow together. I genuinely love these sessions. I chose this work on purpose and I’d choose it again every time. I go to bed most nights tired from a full day. Content. Rarely dreading tomorrow. This is the life Craig told me I couldn’t have.Now look at this screenshot. That’s over $275,000 of investment growth in a single, absolutely wild, month. I want to be clear about what that number actually is. It’s not magic. It’s not luck. It’s not a windfall. It’s every 60-hour workweek under Craig’s overbearing management, funneled into boring index funds instead of a lifestyle I couldn’t afford. It’s consistent contributions into accounts designed to follow the market. Nothing special. Just a long-term plan and the discipline to leave it alone. And now the machine is doing its job. A dollar making a few cents this month. Those pennies getting put to work making more pennies. All those pennies making more pennies that make more pennies forever. I never have to ask permission to go enjoy the world the way I want. I live life on my timetable. Without anyone’s approval. That’s not just financial freedom. That’s agency.But here’s the part I never talk about enough. The messy middle. What it actually took to get here. By the time my Vietnam awakening happened I was about 10 years into my career. My salary had roughly doubled. And somehow, my personal cost of living had doubled right along with it. But when I looked at the world around me, it hadn’t gotten twice as expensive for everyone else. Gas wasn’t double. My phone bill wasn’t double. Eggs didn’t cost twice as much. My life did. Somehow.That’s when I realized money was slipping through the cracks. Quietly. Constantly. And I had no idea where it was going. If I was ever going to fill a bucket big enough to live off of, I had to plug the holes first. Around this time I found the work of Vicki Robin, and something cracked open. I saw that I was trading my life energy. Real, finite, irreplaceable hours. All of it for a paycheck. Then spending that paycheck on things that were making me worse, not better.
It wasn’t until I got honest about how unintentional I was with my money that anything changed. Every dollar I wasted was hours of my life I’d never get back. Once I saw it that way, I couldn’t unsee it. That’s when the plan actually started.Here’s what I believe about you. You were meant for more than increasing shareholder value. Your hours are limited. Genuinely, actually, mathematically limited. And somewhere deep down you know that spending the majority of them making someone else’s company more profitable isn’t the answer. I want to see you completely in control of your own plan. With real agency over how your days look and where your energy goes. I want you to wake up ten years from now and truly recognize the life around you. Not because things just happened to you. But because you designed it that way, on purpose, and then trusted the process long enough for it to become real. That’s not a pipe dream. It’s a plan. And it starts with two things: getting clear on what you actually want your life to look like. And then building the financial system to make it possible. One without the other just doesn’t work. The vision without the numbers is just a dream. The numbers without the vision is just math. You need both. And that’s exactly what we build together.I know this because I had to learn it the hard way. When I was figuring this out ten years ago I did what any engineer would do. Spreadsheets. Calculations. Pivot tables. So many pivot tables. And the whole time I was chasing the numbers, maximizing savings rate, minimizing discretionary spending, I was missing the most important piece. The thing I would go back and tell my younger self is this: the numbers are not the hard part. Understanding what you actually want your life to look like. That’s the hard part. And it’s the piece that makes everything else work. Because if all you can tell me is “not this” and can’t articulate what you’re building toward, no amount of money will ever feel like enough. That’s exactly why I built the Next Level Program the way I did.It’s two sessions. Deeply personal. Built entirely around you. In Session 1 we forget about the numbers entirely. We dig into your relationship with money, what’s been keeping you stuck, and most importantly, what you actually want your life to look like. We build a real vision. Not a vague “someday” plan. A specific, honest picture of where you want to be. In Session 2 I bring the Roadmap. Your numbers, your goals, your timeline. I typically find over $800 per month in savings my clients didn’t know they had. We walk through your highest-impact action items, things you can do right now, not someday, because the clients who act while the motivation is high and the vision is clear get the best results. Then you walk away with a step-by-step plan. A real one. Built for your actual life. When I hand someone their Roadmap and watch them go from “I think this might be possible” to “I know I can actually do this!” - that “aha” moment is why I do this work. It’s the first step most people need to take back their time. Their life energy. The hours they’ve been trading to the Craigs of the world. Knowing I’m helping someone reclaim even a piece of their limited time on this planet makes my heart so full. I have four spots open in May. Not four hundred. Four.I work with a maximum of eight clients at a time because this is real, personalized, 1:1 coaching. Not a self-guided course you’ll abandon when life gets busy. Not generic advice. A proven system built entirely around your life, your goals, and your numbers. This is for the people who get things done. Even when it’s scary. Especially when it’s scary. I know what you’re thinking. You already have a packed calendar and the idea of adding one more big life project makes your skin crawl. That’s exactly why I’m here. It all starts with a free, 20-minute Clarity Call. No pressure. No pitch. Just a real conversation where you get to unload your money baggage to someone who has heard it all, judged none of it, and lived some version of what you’re facing today. Someone who sat at his own desk a decade ago, felt completely trapped, and said “not this” and then actually did something about it. All I’m asking for is twenty minutes. I’ll show you exactly what’s possible. Change is hard. But it’s so much more manageable when you have someone in your corner every step of the way.
I wish something like this had existed for me all those years ago. I wish I’d had the courage and the guidance to get on the right path sooner. But if there’s one thing this life has taught me, it’s that it’s never too late to change. And making the decision to start. To actually pursue a life that feels meaningful. That’s the most impactful step you can take today. If you’re ready to start now, not someday, I’m here. I’m genuinely excited to help you build your Roadmap and put your plan into action. Just make sure you’re one of the four. — Joe P.S. If any part of you is on the fence or afraid of the commitment, just hit reply and tell me what’s going on. I see you and I’m here to listen. P.P.S. If you’re one of my amazing past clients who know how impactful it is working with me, please forward this on to someone who needs to hear the message. Someone you want to see take back more of their own life. Joe Maddux |
I'm an adventurer and food lover who values time freedom. I retired at 36 and now I teach overworked high-achievers how to design a life they love. Subscribe to my newsletter for a kind and supportive approach to personal finance, small business growth, and early retirement.
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